Getting healthy/more fit is more about creating the physical appearance you would like. It usually leads to a COMPLETE lifestyle change...and a change in how you are as a person!
You have to learn to LOVE and accept YOU!
No one else matters!In the end YOU are the person that has to be happy.
You are not eating right, working out, and trying to create the life YOU want for anyone else!The main reason you should be working hard to become a better person is for YOU!